why

why is it when women are being abused they stay with the man and take it till they are nearly killed? Do they not have the will to live? Do they not have the self esteem to know that there are great guys out there that would give anything in the world if they had it to show them what 5true love can be like? I personally have ran into women like this, they were beaten and would come to work with black eyes and bruises, I would beg them to leave the guy, and allow me to show them the love they weren't getting at home. I know it has to be a psychological thing because anyone who isn't told that they were worthless and that they had to do what the man said or die. I dated a girl that was molested by her adoptive father from the age of 6 to the age of 16 and when I questioned her about sex when we made it that far there was things that brought back those horrid feeling and once we were in the passion of each other and I tried a few things that i have normally done in the past with women and found that it had totally messed her up mentally when it came down to sex I am here to say if i ever found the guy who did that to her he wouldn't like the out come believe me my sister under went a lot of abuse and my family knowing me never told me about it till the guy was out of her life. unfortunately he is still her sons father and has to put up with him every now and then. so could anyone tell me just why women put up with it and i have noticed in my life time that it is getting bad on men being abused also i know that sounds wrong but it does happen.